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Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

25-year leader. Writer. Believer that humanity is the best leadership strategy.

My Connection Is You

Sep 24, 2026

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5 min read

My Connection Is You

On a question that's been coming into focus for six years. Essay 24 . September 24, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Version We Get

Sep 17, 2026

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6 min read

The Version We Get

On the people who only show us one side, and what to decide about the rest. Essay 23 . September 17, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
Good Grief

Sep 5, 2026

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3 min read

Good Grief

On grief and what it means to share it with others. Essay 22 . September 5, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
A Voice From Home

Aug 28, 2026

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8 min read

A Voice From Home

On Dolly Parton, an evening in Los Angeles, and being found. Essay 21 . August 28, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
Said Twice

Aug 20, 2026

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4 min read

Said Twice

On a reply that had to be delivered in person. Essay 20 . August 20, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Celine Dion Campaign

Aug 13, 2026

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4 min read

The Celine Dion Campaign

On what a friend spent two months doing for a prize he couldn't win. Essay 19 . August 13, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
What Walks In With Me

Aug 6, 2026

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6 min read

What Walks In With Me

On the energy we hand to the people around us, and how rarely we find out. Essay 18 . August 6, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
In the News

Jul 30, 2026

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4 min read

In the News

On what a decision becomes after it leaves the person who made it. Essay 17 . July 30, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Ride Home

Jul 21, 2026

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7 min read

The Ride Home

On the stories people build where a reason should have been. Essay 16 . July 21, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Sweep

Jul 8, 2026

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6 min read

The Sweep

On the coach who made my pace his pace, and what I learned about it years later.Essay 15 . July 7, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Part I Left Out

Jun 30, 2026

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7 min read

The Part I Left Out

On grief, a chorus, and the member who reminded me who we actually are.Essay 14 - June 30, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Air in the Room

Jun 23, 2026

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5 min read

The Air in the Room

On the toll of being unknowable at work, and the leaders who set its price.Essay 13 - June 23, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

Memory & Erasure

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Another Line in The Ledger

Jun 16, 2026

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8 min read

Another Line in The Ledger

On Juneteenth, the editing of a nation's memory, and a friend's Plan B.Essay 12 - June 16, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Signals of Safety

Jun 11, 2026

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3 min read

The Signals of Safety

On the small proofs that it was safe to be seen, and the grief of watching them go.

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

Workplace Culture

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The Careful Version

May 31, 2026

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7 min read

The Careful Version

On fluency, performance, and what came up when the careful version was not at hand.

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
A Note From Istanbul

May 11, 2026

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2 min read

A Note From Istanbul

Special Note From Istanbul, May 11, 2026

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

The Dinner Table Test

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Still Practicing

May 5, 2026

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4 min read

Still Practicing

On the words a leader has to keep choosing

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
The Tool I Reach For First

Apr 26, 2026

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6 min read

The Tool I Reach For First

On Appreciative Inquiry, and the humility of knowing when to set it down

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
Two and a Half Years

Apr 20, 2026

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3 min read

Two and a Half Years

On the decisions that policy alone can't make

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
Before We Begin

Apr 14, 2026

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10 min read

Before We Begin

Asking something real before you ask anything else

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

The Dinner Table Test

+5

The Living Wall

Apr 5, 2026

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9 min read

The Living Wall

On Belonging Signals and the Weight They Carry

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
What the Quiet Is Saying

Mar 29, 2026

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8 min read

What the Quiet Is Saying

The Invisible Workplace: What Leaders Miss When No One Is Complaining

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

The Dinner Table Test

+5

The Larger Circle

Mar 24, 2026

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10 min read

The Larger Circle

What Pauli Murray Taught Me About the Work We Never See

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

The Dinner Table Test

+5

When The Fear Works

Mar 22, 2026

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8 min read

When The Fear Works

The results were real. So was the damage

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour

The Dinner Table Test

+5

The Seat Isn't The Signal

Mar 15, 2026

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6 min read

The Seat Isn't The Signal

Some lessons take years to recognize. This one took me twenty.

Matthew Barbour
Matthew Barbour
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The Human Leader Project

Weekly essays on human-centered leadership by Matthew Barbour — psychological safety, belonging at work, and the story your people tell about you at the dinner table.

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